
MLK Day & Weekly Events
posted"Privileged groups seldom give up their privileges voluntarily."
― Martin Luther King Jr.
"It has been my privilege to serve as an Alder for the City of Madison"! I have heard that phrase many times, and I have expressed the words myself with pride and gratitude on several occasions. In 2024, I am challenging myself and challenging you to have the courage to face "Privilege." Let's acknowledge it, let's name it, and let's use it.
Growing up in the oldest "colony" in America and in poverty, privilege was never a topic of discussion. My father was pulled from primary school to work on the farm, where he learned to fix farming machinery. As an adult, he shared his skills as a mechanic with others, including my brothers; being a car mechanic became his primary job. Abuelita and Abuelo adored us; they made each of us feel like we were their favorite grandchildren; they were simple people with strong family roots and values. Compared to our father and grandparents, we had all we needed to succeed: their unconditional love, food on the table, a roof over our heads, and access to education. Poverty tends to attract all sorts of trauma, health issues, and conflict and forces children to grow at a faster rate. Despite having more resources than our prior generations, life was rough for us and many others within our community.
I moved to Madison from Puerto Rico over 30 years ago and have been in perpetual culture shock since my arrival. The silver lining is that the stage of shock has forced me to explore my privilege. Recognizing privilege takes work! The process is similar to the grieving steps: denial, anger, bargaining, depression, acceptance, and purpose. I remember my surprise when I realized I was privileged; I was so upset and ashamed. I didn't know what to do with that knowledge. It took me a while to accept my White privilege and a while longer to find the courage to use it in meaningful and purposeful ways.